11/6/12

A Deputy Warden’s Reflections on Prison Work


As a correctional employee reinventing himself, I am getting at this new reality, a bitter sweet pill where words can’t be cheeked and spat-out when convenient. Adria L. Libolt knows all too well how fragile and misunderstood life can be and expresses it in her debut book, A Deputy Warden’s Reflections on Prison Work. Her words, although simple, direct, and minus the gristle, are tasty antidotes of meaning and purpose. She writes:

We are related, not as blood brothers and sisters, but as sharing a common humanity and community. We are in life together. It is why we can’t isolate ourselves ... (p.22).

This, after telling us in the introduction “that we are not that different than prisoners—even the most dangerous and manipulative inmates.”

Doing time, whether in prison or in the free-world, Libolt dispenses a moderate amount of medicinal wisdom:

Being sentenced to prison does not automatically put a person in danger. There is not a ‘before’ when you were safe, and an ‘after’ when you are no longer safe … (p.9).

We all have to take risks, whether driving defensively through a busy intersection or, in general terms, interacting with those we have ‘wronged’. We think and react to each other’s behaviors with our own biased perspectives. Again, Libolt quoting Janet Malcolm from The New Yorker about audiotape evidence involving a 2009 murder trial:

We go through life mishearing and misseeing (sic) and misunderstanding so that the stories we tell ourselves will add up. Our brains work to make disparate pieces of a puzzle fit. (p.55)

And no one likes to be wronged. Libolt:

Justice is not always found through the courts, though we imagine we will find impartiality or some kind of resolution there. (p.73).

And nothing is ever easy:

We are all a mixture of messy humanity; possessing both the capacity to do good and to do terrible things … We judge appearances, but things are not always as they seem on the surface; we may need to look deeper. (p.147).

It’s one thing to dispense sound, logical advice and feel good about ourselves, yet another thing to digest it and follow it. Libolt lends validity to her words through not only her experiences behind Michigan’s prison walls but her voluntary work in her church where she helps ex-felons get re-acclimated to the harsh realities on the outside. It’s people like her that give hope to those experiencing hardship. Her book, although somewhat Pollyannish, shares personal glimpses of what it’s like to work for so many years inside a prison and to retire a better person for it. I recommend this book mainly to those who have no idea what correctional employment is all about.

16 comments:

jodi said...

J.R.-I will leave my prison education to you! Oh, and you look cute with glasses!

Charles Gramlich said...

Sounds like she knows a few things.

the walking man said...

We finds our pearls where someone dropped 'em and we are fortunate enough to stumble on them when they appear.

Bobby said...

I met a guy at Downtown Disney Friday who is a prison guard in Maine. He said he was having trouble having so many people walking all around him, behind him and all, he couldn't keep an eye on em or didn't adjust to the fact that he didn't really have to.

ivan@creativewriting.ca said...

No one likes a snob, but Ms. Libolt's observations can be applied to the difference between the uneducated and the trained.

We all have the same antisocial, aggressive insticts, for sure, but the educated have learned to hold them in check...At least, I hoope.

Erik Donald France said...

Sounds worth a gander. I think of the large numbers of vets back from Iraq and Afghanistan -- and hope they can sustainably adjust, too . . . (2,000 or so where I work).

JR's Thumbprints said...

Ivan, Your assessment is spot on.

Erik, It's never easy having to adjust, especially when things seem so much different than before.

Bobby, I know all too well about watching my back in public and in my personal life.

Thanks for the comments everyone. Now go buy some of those "red-bottomed" shoes for that special someone in your life.

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Anonymous said...

You are a self righteous piece of shit!

Anonymous said...

You are nothing. You used to employ an innate named Kraii who was a multiple rapist. You used to use him as an instrument of authority while, typical of a lazy state employee, say back and listened to music rather than teach. I was there, now I'm out, and know where you live, where you hang out, etc. You treated everyone like they were beneath you, some of us were smarter than you, what are your comments now, now that some of us know where you live!

Anonymous said...

You are such a naive ass, you think that the MDOC will protect you no matter what your conduct. Fool!!!!!!!!!

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