As a correctional employee reinventing himself, I am getting
at this new reality, a bitter sweet pill where words can’t be cheeked and spat-out
when convenient. Adria L. Libolt knows all too well how fragile and
misunderstood life can be and expresses it in her debut book, A Deputy
Warden’s Reflections on Prison Work. Her words, although simple, direct,
and minus the gristle, are tasty antidotes of meaning and purpose. She writes:
We are related, not as
blood brothers and sisters, but as sharing a common humanity and community. We
are in life together. It is why we can’t isolate ourselves ... (p.22).
This, after telling us in the introduction “that we are not
that different than prisoners—even the most dangerous and manipulative
inmates.”
Doing time, whether in prison or in the free-world, Libolt
dispenses a moderate amount of medicinal wisdom:
Being sentenced to
prison does not automatically put a person in danger. There is not a ‘before’
when you were safe, and an ‘after’ when you are no longer safe … (p.9).
We all have to take risks, whether driving defensively
through a busy intersection or, in general terms, interacting with those we
have ‘wronged’. We think and react to each other’s behaviors with our own biased perspectives. Again, Libolt quoting Janet Malcolm from The New Yorker about audiotape evidence involving a 2009 murder trial:
We go through life
mishearing and misseeing (sic) and misunderstanding so that the stories we tell
ourselves will add up. Our brains work to make disparate pieces of a puzzle fit.
(p.55)
And no one likes to be wronged. Libolt:
Justice is not always
found through the courts, though we imagine we will find impartiality or some
kind of resolution there. (p.73).
And nothing is ever easy:
We are all a mixture
of messy humanity; possessing both the capacity to do good and to do terrible
things … We judge appearances, but things are not always as they seem on the
surface; we may need to look deeper. (p.147).
It’s one thing to dispense sound, logical advice and feel
good about ourselves, yet another thing to digest it and follow it. Libolt
lends validity to her words through not only her experiences behind Michigan’s prison
walls but her voluntary work in her church where she helps ex-felons get re-acclimated
to the harsh realities on the outside. It’s people like her that give hope to
those experiencing hardship. Her book, although somewhat Pollyannish, shares
personal glimpses of what it’s like to work for so many years inside a prison
and to retire a better person for it. I recommend this book mainly to those who
have no idea what correctional employment is all about.
16 comments:
J.R.-I will leave my prison education to you! Oh, and you look cute with glasses!
Sounds like she knows a few things.
We finds our pearls where someone dropped 'em and we are fortunate enough to stumble on them when they appear.
I met a guy at Downtown Disney Friday who is a prison guard in Maine. He said he was having trouble having so many people walking all around him, behind him and all, he couldn't keep an eye on em or didn't adjust to the fact that he didn't really have to.
No one likes a snob, but Ms. Libolt's observations can be applied to the difference between the uneducated and the trained.
We all have the same antisocial, aggressive insticts, for sure, but the educated have learned to hold them in check...At least, I hoope.
Sounds worth a gander. I think of the large numbers of vets back from Iraq and Afghanistan -- and hope they can sustainably adjust, too . . . (2,000 or so where I work).
Ivan, Your assessment is spot on.
Erik, It's never easy having to adjust, especially when things seem so much different than before.
Bobby, I know all too well about watching my back in public and in my personal life.
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You are a self righteous piece of shit!
You are nothing. You used to employ an innate named Kraii who was a multiple rapist. You used to use him as an instrument of authority while, typical of a lazy state employee, say back and listened to music rather than teach. I was there, now I'm out, and know where you live, where you hang out, etc. You treated everyone like they were beneath you, some of us were smarter than you, what are your comments now, now that some of us know where you live!
You are such a naive ass, you think that the MDOC will protect you no matter what your conduct. Fool!!!!!!!!!
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